273. The Ugly Truth..

the otherday someone posted about a luv story,
about someone who found a new luv after she got engaged.

well what can we say, shit happened heheh:_)
but people, can i make a statement that say
'luv and marriage is different?'
first of all, u wont marry a lousy jobless taik pit even
if u luv him like u luv your H20,
breathing in and breathing out everyday.
(Well some of us ere in kampung actually do.. pity them)
second .. a couple in luv can always marry someone else,
still having babies and grow old together.
Even if it was a kawin paksa.
I am disregarding the drama u watch every now
and then showing ho faithful the man is to his
tru luv by not 'touching' the kawin paksa wife,
that is fantasy people... wake up.

Marriage is a stage.
A stage where one have to face just because we have to,
with who? preferably someone we love, but ...
a reliable guy,
a good attitude lady,
a man who dont cheat,
a lady who knows her way around the kitchen,
Someone who happened to be there when u're in need.
...is an essence u would consider acceptable over love.
Agree?

i mean why must u marry your tru luv, the jobless bum
when u can marry the SelKom CEO minus the luv?
(COnsidering both are crazy about u of course)
why must we choose a slut from the back alley whom u luv
when u can marry a girl from the surau.
disregarding any other factor of course, she can be a member
of the 'window-meeting' and u'll find the curry is still undone
by zohor due to the sembang tingkap is not yet finished :D

ok well, i guess it is kinda mean for me to say this but...
somehow the situation that we're living in right now shows
that luving doesnt have to end with marriage,
and marrying someone.. may not be due to luv.
(I know most of u pocketeers will not agree to this...)

yes yes, i know..
its ugly, i'm feeling ugly just to type this, but pocketeers..
if this is the ugly truth, can we admit to this?
if this is not the truth, are all luv ends with marriage?

i refuse to take this as the truth.. i just refuse..^^;