Thursday, April 01, 2010

280. Men Dont Listen,

...and it was also indicated that venusian only looking
for empathy from the Problem-Explanation session and
not solution.(I dont get it but i'm a martian, no mystery there folks)

we martian, being the martian we are usually misinterpret
this and start solving the problem even though all u need
was empathy.

The reason would be, men talk about problem in search of solution,
Problem without solution shows our weakness. You guys dont want
to rely on a useless man right, heheh, kinda understand too.

well MrPocket here have one more point to add.
By offering solution, we also hope the long story would end.
so that we can watch our favorite Dvd, read our books and
maybe start browsing on the next power tool to add into our
collection.heheheh..
U know how u can go with your talk right..
one point of problem is repeated 23 time!!

so why do we offer solution, in other word..
would be to end the long talk:D heheheh

Small Note : Venusian really digs Martian who can actually
lend an ear without offering solution, so listen to them my
fellow martian... maybe we can get lucky afterall. Hopefully:D

12 comments:

Adila said...

...tbh, I do talk about my bad day, my stress just to get it out of my way
things happen, and some things are better left like that since that's just life; it's wicked! hehe

if each time i complain (when i just need someone to hear me out) but they ended up telling me what i should do, mmg super pissed :|

it's like.. "so, you're trying to fix my life for me huh?"

anyway, it's not all men, kan? :P
some of the guys that i know do listen to me nagging, ranting and such without really trying to push something into my face hehehe

aBoi said...

in some kind of situation..
women actually doesn't want a solution.

it's like..when she is nagging or complaining about her job or whatsoever..

she just need someone to tell, someone to talk to..or someone to share what is she feeling that day.. so that she will feel relieved..

women actually don't wanna hear a solution like "you should quit your job or etc."

they don't want a solution because they actually love to do it..or let just say, they prefer to go with the flow...


it's just my opinion..

UglyPooh said...

haih..perempuan cuma mau bermanja.

Dee said...

yeah..guys..u just need to lend us ur ears..hehehe..so, sabar jelah ye..

~LP Lum~ said...

salam pocket~

hehehe...kalo lelaki xsuka mndegar, dorg suka apa eik?? :p

tapikan kekdg , lelaki pun perlu mendegar keluhan insan yg dorg syg... :)

HEMY said...

haah..kadang dengar je lagi bagus...bg solution kang dia argue..kita lak panas..ahaha

Ayaq masak said...

I guess I'm half Venus half Mars then. Cerita masalah panjang2 kat aku lepas tu taknak solution, apa kes??? But yes we do love guys who listen...

Arjuna Qaseh said...

habis tu..
apa dong yang di sukai nya?
ngak ngerti aku begini mas.

Cik Qemm said...

hmm. is this part of 'men from Mars and women from venus?' by John Gray?

point dia lebih kurang cmtu la. Reading that book makes me knew that men is like that and women is like that. That's is why men rarely talks about their problem and women talks too much :P

anyway,men is men and vice versa. so guys, if u all malas nak dgr pot pet partner u all, then let them lepak dgn their girlfriends so one of your problem settled! (it is just one way of larikan diri la).

boleh terima ke?
:P

:)

Cik Qemm said...

hmm. is this part of 'men from Mars and women from venus?' by John Gray?

point dia lebih kurang cmtu la. Reading that book makes me knew that men is like that and women is like that. That's is why men rarely talks about their problem and women talks too much :P

anyway,men is men and vice versa. so guys, if u all malas nak dgr pot pet partner u all, then let them lepak dgn their girlfriends so one of your problem settled! (it is just one way of larikan diri la).

boleh terima ke?
:P

:)

~ mizzAmy ~ said...

hehehehe.. i love the book but still tak abis baca lagi. LOL.... :P

|arieza| said...

hahha men really were from mars...